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Ok so i have a dance of friday and i want my hair like straigtened and down but then on the crown on of my head i want it poofed up so i can put a black head band around it because my dress is black and white i can get it up there i just need to know what i need to do to make it look sleek and not so messy and less bobby pin ish...so basiclly how do i get it not looking like a mess? :D thanks for the help!